Etiquette
Get to know me a little better...
What do you usually wear to a date?
I take pride in presenting myself with a feminine and elegant style that suits the occasion perfectly. Typically, I choose chic, business casual outfits that exude sophistication and confidence. However, I’m always open to requests and happy to tailor my attire to your preferences, ensuring we’re the perfect match for any setting, from a fine dining experience to a relaxed evening out.
Where are you located?
I travel frequently, taking clients in various cities across North America, Europe, and Australia. My primary home bases are Vancouver, BC and (soon to be) Montreal, but you might find me visiting other exciting destinations as well. If you’re curious about my current travel schedule or want to arrange a special visit, visit my "Travel" section or feel free to reach out!
Do you have any requirements or screening process?
For my safety and peace of mind, I do require a discreet and straightforward screening process for all new clients. Rest assured, your privacy is my utmost priority, and all information is handled with the highest level of confidentiality. Details on screening will are listed on my "Investment" page.
How far in advance should I book?
When on tour, I recommend booking as far in advance as you can. I do not usually have much last minute availability while travelling. When at home, I recommend booking at least 24-48 hours in advance to ensure availability, especially for longer engagements or special requests. However, I understand that spontaneity can be exciting! If you’re looking for a last-minute arrangement, feel free to reach out, and I’ll do my best to accommodate.
Do you require a deposit?
For longer engagements and FMTY, a small deposit is required to secure your booking. This helps ensure our time together is reserved exclusively for you. The deposit policy will be clearly communicated during our initial correspondence.
How should I handle the donation?
To ensure a comfortable and seamless experience, please provide the donation either before or at the beginning of our date. If paying cash, discreetly placed in an unsealed envelope or a gift bag is preferred. If we’re meeting in public, you may place it inside a gift bag or a book. I also accept bitcoin.
Do you have a menu?
I’m not a restaurant, so no—no menus, no frantic checklists. All jokes aside, if you’re looking for an experience where we simply go through the motions, then I’m not the provider for you. What I offer is a genuine, immersive girlfriend experience—one filled with connection, chemistry, and indulgence. I love getting lost in the moment, exploring mutual desires, and creating an encounter that feels natural, exciting, and unhurried. I’m open-minded with low restrictions, ensuring that our time together is as passionate and fulfilling as it is unforgettable. If that sounds like what you’re looking for, then I’d love to meet you.
Are you real?
If you find yourself questioning my validity, it may be helpful to know that I haven't designed an entire website myself just for shits & giggles. Please take a look at my bluesky, instagram, and a defunct twitter account where I post regularly, including candid photos, occasional videos of me talking, and just generic shitposting. I also have some glowing reviews across a few different sites, although I prefer to not participate in the review boards.
Do you drink alcohol on dates?
I do love a tipple and would be delighted to drink with you. Cocktail wise, I love sweeter concoctions like a Pimm's Cup, Classic Bellini, or Pink Lady. Champagne and prosecco-wise, I'll drink pretty much anything.
What are your favourite places to eat?
See my 'date ideas' page for this one!
Do you accept gifts?
Of course. My favourite flowers are peonies and roses, my favourite chocolates are Pierre Marcolini pralines, and my favourite perfume is Gucci flora. I also have a throne wishlist: throne.com/avastjames
What type of clients do you like best?
I will never discriminate or refuse to see a client based on ethnic background, gender identity, or disability. I only ask that my clients are polite, respectful towards me, and practice good hygiene.
Can you accompany me to an event as my date?
I'd love to be your companion! Do you have an upcoming wedding, conference, or just a party that you'd like to bring a date along to? I'm your woman - although please note that standard rates will apply.
Can I record our private encounter for personal use?
No.
Can I pay premium for [insert service that I don't offer here]?
No.
Can you shave your pubic/body hair, or fashion it a certain way for me?
Yes, for $1,000.
Why would you cancel a date?
In the extremely unlikely event that I do cancel a date with you, it'll be because I've picked up multiple red flags and feel unsafe. These are included but not limited to; boundary pushing, requesting services I don't offer, or simply not taking the time to read my website and familiarise yourself with my business. In these events, deposits will be refunded to you via your method of choice within three working days.
Can you do a video call verification?
If after viewing my website, social media presence, and ads, you still doubt my validity, I will on request carry out a video call verification over FaceTime/WhatsApp with you. This costs $300 (to be paid via any payment method outlined on my Investment page) and will irritate me tremendously.
Dress Requests:
Those who know me would describe me as "minimalistic, elegant, and sleek"
If you have a request, check out my wishlist (I adore being dressed before a date).
